Cheating Tips It can be exciting to have an affair. However, it takes more planning and forethought to ensure it stays secret. Here are some tips to help you get started:
Use NoStringsAttached to exchange email, rather than on a personal account.
Chat on the phone via Private Call, which uses untraceable numbers. (U.S. only)
Before you make contact, check out a member's complete profile, since it will help you determine chemistry.
Ask to see a current photo before agreeing to meet in person. (VIP members can see all public photos posted by other members.)
Make it easy for prospective mates to view your entire profile by subscribing to Open the Door, which also enables them to email you for free!
If an appealing member winks at you, wink back! Or, better yet, send a personalized email, one that shows you've reviewed their full profile.
First contacts are usually made via email so make sure yours are appealing. List common interests and try to get a reply by ending with a good question.
VIP memberships show that you have money to invest in a relationship, plus they give you access to complete member profiles and full email privileges.
Find the closest, most appropriate members by using the "priority" form, which has advanced search options.
Purchase account highlights so your search listing and emails stand out from others that are pursuing the most sought-after members.
Consider getting a second cell phone, keeping it in a secret location, and muting the ringer when not expecting a call.
If you want to keep a relationship secret, then consider dating only married people, since they're especially motivated to be discreet.
An affair is less likely to be discovered if it's with someone your spouse does not know.
Avoid running into people your spouse knows by taking your mate to different restaurants, clubs, etc.
If you're going to get physical, take a shower afterwards so there is no lingering scent of a lover.
Keep a change of clothes in your car's trunk - perhaps exercise attire in a gym bag - in case your clothing smells of cologne or has lipstick on it.
After seeing your mate, check your car and clothing to ensure they're free from incriminating items - like condoms, or a note with a name and phone number.
Do not arouse suspicions by neglecting your spouse. Also, keep your routine normal and come home at a reasonable hour.
Remember that the best way to keep a secret is not to tell anyone about it.